Before coming into union with your twin flame or during your encounters with them, you need to strongly address the issues on this list. Are you really aggressive towards life? Do you want to make your way at the expense of whatever it takes, or do you just go with the flow? Do you want to take whatever you want without considering what the other side thinks about it? Did you isolate yourself from the world because your “so-called” twin has put you down lately? Many things to check on this list as a way of self-learning from the experiences you encounter during this journey.
Many of my clients are claiming that they have done the inner work required to obtain a twin flame connection however, some things are unseen or missing in 3D. The reason for that is you may not be able to see the truth. The truth of who you are and where you come from.
Doing the inner work does not mean taking spiritual courses or attending the lessons in spirituality or working with artificial visualizations. On the contrary, it means taming your mind, getting rid of past traumas, and having a strong will of the divine consciousness.
Ascension means knowing yourself, inside and out. Determining your boundaries and your self-respect. Mindfulness about what love is and creating a sustainable relationship. It does not mean falling in love with someone who does not even know you or who is not in your life anymore. You have got what it takes not to do that anymore for the sake of divine twin flame love.
Healing the Feminine Energy Patterns requires a lot of patience and hard work. Working on yourself means clearing jealousy, hatred, manipulation, anger, and other negative patterns totally from your life. Not just in your romantic relationships or daily encounters.
It also requires understanding the twin flame relationship is not a fairy tale or a romantic movie material, it is the actualization of yourself on planet earth with someone else. It is becoming one with the universal consciousness clearing the 3D patterns dictated to humankind for so many years. It means freedom and salvation from EGO and Animal Self. It does not mean running after someone who does not care about you at all.
However, the journey requires all of these to happen because you need to evolve into a human being of self-love and respect who wants to share this new-self with someone who wants to do the same. Feminine energy you need to catch up with the divine masculines as you have been trapped in false twin relationships for some time now. It is a time to wake up from the illusion that is created by your mind.
You need to come to reality, the reality that 3D is an illusion and the truth always resides within the Divine, come into the realization that you may not exist tomorrow yet this planet will, and you may not be the one for this journey as you are unwilling to commit yourself to it.
Shadow self is the part of your persona that remains unnoticed by your consciousness. This part of your persona may show itself when it comes across with your twin flame. And it may continue to expand this uprising into your daily dreams as a revealing point to your MONAD.
Shadow self is the part that has both negative and positive aspects. Although usually, this side of us is famous for negative aspects, it also contains a positive side of hidden talents and creativity. We may encounter mood swings from one side to the other, on the other hand, we may have mood swings from unconscious to conscious as well.
I have come across clients over one decade that has experienced this type of shadow exposure from mild to severe and one of the severe cases claimed that “another woman come inside of her”… which is not a pleasant one as you might have guessed already. So dealing with this shadow self is important for the safety and health of the relationship.
The shadow self has been repressed for so long that you may want to release this when you are alone or not interacting with your TF. Having said that, in the first stages of a union, you clear your shadow self and unite it with your persona which is called individualization. This should be done promptly before one of them becomes dominant over the other, so you should not end up with the lord and slave game.
So this assimilation and integration will be done by melting one side inside of the other and hopefully, the conscious positive mind wins. Another stage is when this kind of melting happens with your twin flame, as your twin’s negative side melts in your persona so this double merging also indicates that you are with your true twin flame.
After this union, there comes the union of higher aspects of yourself and the conscious mind… which will bring down heaven to earth and the union of multiple personas within your psyche. Here are some aspects that you are still on the shadow self process and a huge block on the way to your twin flame union;
- If you think of your twin flame as a “bad person”
- If you have sudden negative thoughts resulting as lashouts to your twin flame (external or internal)
- If you place high expectations, then overreach to make them happen and usually resulting as crossing the boundaries of your TF
- If you have tendencies of sabotaing your TF relationship going solely unnoticed by you.
- If you recently had a schedule of bad dreams and seems like you dont know why.
- If you believe that your tf is deceiving you or devaluing you and you do not deserve his/her time, affection, attension and good intensions.
Twin Flame Union is a stage in your life that which you only seize this opportunity once. This once-in-a-lifetime experience will last in victory if you are only “aware” of your shadow self.
We talk about the union stage to an extended point where we are eager to fail to say what happens after. Sorry guys I don’t have good news for you but the real deal starts right after. The real challenges will take you to your final union and the unconditional love you have been waiting for.
If you haven’t started a relationship with your twin already… I am hoping that you will this year as it’s a perfect year for unions indicated as 22. I am about to explain the stages in the union that some couples in the past went through in 5 years but now it should take less. Recently united couples could have a bumpy fast track of completion in months.
Coming together: This stage is when you recognize that you have a special connection and the person holding the divine masculine energy approaches you in order to start a relationship. Although the DM has not awakened to the connection yet, he holds the energy of the last stage as core energy within him. That energy drags you and pulls you towards the last stage of the union so it’s important that DM starts the relationship and if not it takes longer to pass through other stages.
Push/Pull dynamics: Push and Pull dynamics could overlap all stages except the unconditional love stage where both partners merge in the presence of the Divine. These dynamics are necessary to close the past relationships, heal the childhood traumas and karma if any. The shadow self is merged with the true self in the Psyche and then a merging starts between two parties as they become literally ONE. This is the past where we feel all kinds of negative emotions and pass through them without hurting one another. If the parties intentionally hurt each other that means you are in a karmic relationship other than a twin flame union.
No İllusions: This stage is where we let go of the 3D expectations of a twin flame soul bond relationship and stop trying to push the relationship into 3D forms of a union like marriage and family, engagement, partnership (if only mission exist and you have no romantic connection) You wake up to a fact that your twin flame is a human being and the connection in between you is the miracle itself. Love is the miracle itself. Any future expectations fade away. You realize and recognize what love truly is for you. You begin to understand the Divine Love in a very moderate way. You become your authentic self other than the self that is imposed on you by society.
The Final DECISION: You decide who your twin flame is and whom you want to take this journey of love with. The final decision stage sometimes comes with a rude awakening and sometimes with bliss. Where I feel like indicating that Goodsoul is non-denominational, this stage occurs within your own belief system and your own way of understanding the Divine, the Creator, and the Love itself. This is the most personal stage you can have and it is also private. Even not in between your twin flame and you but at its core, between you and your creator.
THE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE: This is the stage where we all want to reach more than an enlightenment stage in any religion so far. This is for me was like when I realize I am actually made of LOVE that I don^t need to look for it elsewhere. Like we have been forgotten who we are and we are a miracle itself, being a human being on earth is the most precious gift of all. My love, my twin flame is with me forever and yet we are here to experience the earth plane as a whole. Every day is a new day in Love. Every challenge is a wave in the vastness of the ocean that we will eventually overcome. We are safe, we are here, we are made of love, we are within love and we are in love truly.
Having a Ph.D. Degree in Psychology and being on a twin flame journey for more than 10 years, I am here to guide you spiritually through those stages. Peace will come to all of us, why not have it now. We serve all over the world except Turkey with our spiritual guidance sessions. There is a lot more to solve in this journey than you can imagine. Goodsoul is always with you.
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As you may all know or experienced by now, your twin flame resonates with your exact core frequency. The deepest of our soul, the max of our mind, and the most beloved of our soul. This deep connection resides subtly within our soul until the day it activates upon meeting your true twin.
From then on, nothing will be the same nor you will remember your ego-built past interactions with the world around you, because from then on you will be living in 5d instead of 3d…
Twin flame connection lasts beyond 3d aspects of life, it is eternal as your soul. Your twin flame recognizes this connection from all the times once there was a thing called ‘time’. After that there will be no time, bouncing and scratching and looping and all over the place. Years may seem like minutes and minutes may seem like years… catching up with your breath when you can…wondering what happened just right now…
Your twin flame will align his frequency with you…either pulling you down or pushing you up…resonations at the core energy, together and forever.
Easier than said… this might take from a few months to ten years, you might have had hard times guessing what happened in the past to evolve you into his kind of relationship or a way of being…. 99 percent matches are few and 100 matches are extremely rare… even slight changes in the atmosphere affects your relationship…now and then … you are together in 3D for once and for all.
The mission you have together will be a way to live your life and your lifestyle may change accordingly. What a great adventure…
The deepest frequency of my soul, my core energy is connected to my twin… feeling the same things the same way..never ever separated with 0 polarities to one another.
On the way, I know you will meet many. Many that prepare you for your true twin flame and when he comes… oh GOD you know… you’re the same… even touching each other feels like touching yourself in heaven. God blessed us with such a gift that…we should consider what can we give in return. How can we serve this society? Just being ONE is enough? Maybe yes maybe no however working on the shadow aspect of the relationship is a must.
Goodsoul provides clear guidance on your journey. Oh yes, you will unite if you are a true twin flame, of course, fake ones will eliminate themselves. That is the natural evolution of this journey, it is your birthright. You can go and get it by being authentic. Resonating at your core energy without any worry or fear. We are always with you…
God Bless you
Many of us believe that the appreciation has to come from another person or entity, for us to feel fulfilled. However this is not the case…
We have learned from our childhood that we need to work in order to be appreciated by our parents and teachers. For this reason this is something that is carved within. We need to have a tendency to be perfect to get the appreciation we think we deserve.
Coming to the adulthood we ask for appreciation from our spouse at home and from our boss at work. However l believe appreciation is not something to get from outside of you but on the contrary it is something that comes from a point where you gained a proper self achowledgement and self respect for yourself no matter what other people think…about you.
Today l encourage you to look behind and think of all the good things you did so far and have an applause to that. You do not need an approval from another person to do that. The intention you put out to the world as an individual and the integrity pronounced accordingly is enough for this.
Unconditionally loving yourself and self appreciation brings your twin flame one step closer to you and you also do not need to explain yourself to anyone about this. You are not here to be appreciated but to be the best version of yourself just for you.
Many of you thought that heaven is elsewhere…or it is entitled to be reached later…after some good deeds…however this is not True
Look around you, there are fruits hanging from the trees, flowers in the gardens, water in springs, fountains and hidden secrets of mother earth.
Look within you. You are blessed with a body, with an ability to think…with a sensual structure to feel happy and loved.
Look at other people, they look alike with the similar qualities as same as you…including perfections and imperfections.
Get rid of the self drama that perfect is the heaven and you are not there yet…
This is heaven, our earth is heaven…where all is provided to the human kind.
This is a meditation for twin flames who are in this journey for more than 6 years.
This advanced meditation includes activation of the non-activated body parts of yourself
Please refer to our meditation disclaimer at the end of meditations tab before listening to this meditation.
This is a meditation for twin flames who are in this journey for more than 2 years.
This advanced meditation includes 3D feminine energies, negative beliefs, and other energy clearings as well as core frequency fine tuning and alignment.
Please refer to our meditation disclaimer at the end of meditations tab before listening to this meditation.
We are going through hard times both mentally, physically and financially. In these hard times we must not forget that we are part of the same soul, and we shall contribute evenly to its resources.
Your energy maybe deemed or you feel subdued however the inner light you carry will give you the strength you always needed. The very important thing is to look within, to be able to find it.
2021 was a year of changes and these changes will be settled in 2022. Nevertheless we are blessed with such a LOVE that you can feel it every moment, in every breath, in everything surrounding you.
There is no need to dwell into a negative mind set or treats that makes things even worse. We are all here to contribute to our community in any way we can. There is not right or wrong way but there are more healthy ways to deal with inner conflicts.
If you are going through hard times, Goodsoul is always with you but if you need proper medical care or having thoughts of hurting yourself or other people please seek a doctor nearest to your location.